Sunday evening, as soon as our plane landed, we drove to the Wagoner cemetery where Hank's family held a memorial service for his dad who died 1 year ago May 29th. This was the first time Hank has been to the cemetery since the funeral. He doesn't like to deal with emotion so he avoided it, but once we got there it wasn't as bad as he thought it would be. He had totally psyched himself out about it. Wanda said the same thing. Anticipating the one year anniversary was worse than the anniversary itself. The get together was nice. People took turns talking about Darrell and ways they remember him.